NO More Nice Girl

Sometimes it seems Family are the Ones who Walk All Over You.

I'm Learning People will Truly Take Your Kindness for Weakness. I went from single to Married but I never transitioned into a wife. I'm still doing things for my family as if I'm single still.
Can you go here do that take this pick that up help with this and that. I'm literally stretching myself thin. A Few days before Christmas I had a Meltdown. And My poor husband said "Well Baby You have to learn to say NO."

Me learn the word "NO", people will hate me and not talk to me.
If I use the word "NO", won't I look MEAN or ANGRY or even worst won't I sound like a BITCH?
How come I say "YES" out my mouth but in my head I'm thinking NO NO NO.......?
Am I that insecure and unsure with myself that I have to please everyone in my life? Even though these people are asking me for things????

Well Guess What?? I don't care 2010 is the year of "NO" What I do with or for my mother is what I choose to do. She's the one I can go to when I need 1 dollar or 1 million dollars. She's the one that raised me and sacrificed for me. So I will no longer be a slave to my family and I will stand up for myself.

I think I lost a job because I was coined "The Nice Girl".

I will be a wife first and mother second and a Family Member third and so on and so on. I am in CONTROL of ME!!!! AND I will embrace my GUT Feelings and only do what I can and when I can!!!!