Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Back 2 Basics

Back 2 Basics- How often have you gotten comfortable in a relationship? Have you ever gotten so comfortable that you let the sparks die down and let things get BORING????

Losing my job has affected me in more ways than financially, It's taken a toll on my motivation, and inspiration. I used to think of many romantic and loving IDEAS and I used to feel in control of me. But now that I'm jobless I sorta feel hopeless. A few months ago I used to hear all sorts of tunes in my head now I hear Hopeless, A Penny with a hole in it hole in it. Over and Over and Over. I've gotten such in a FUNK I conjure of all types of thoughts not about suicide but thoughts like is James mad at me? Is something wrong with him? Is he too stressed from taking care of me and the household. I don't remember the last time I sincerely touched and kissed my HUSBAND. SO now am I not only making myself miserable but I think I'm making my husband miserable.

So How do I get out of this rut????? I'm pregnant and have no intentions on getting a job until the next year, so my financial situation won't change but Money isn't everything. So I'm going to go back to basics! What are the basics you ask?? See Below !

Basics
-Love God and Praise God
-Say a Little Prayer Each Day and Night
-Have conversations with my husband open honest conversations
-Exercise Daily (Outdoors so long as weather permits)
-Stop Dwelling on The Negative Things and Celebrate the Positive Things
-Make a Daily TO Do List and Accomplish Something
-Set Realistic Goals and Find Ways to Add to the List
-Maintain a Healthy Mind and Heart
-Be Honest and Better Myself
-Be The BEST WIFE AND MOTHER Humanly Possible
-GET HAPPY!!!!!!!!!

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